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Finding the Right Moves for Your First Wedding Dance

At your reception, it is a tradition for the bride and groom to dance to a chosen song to initiate the party. This can be a ballroom dance, country line dance, a dramatic tango or rumba, or whatever else you desire. It all depends on your style as a couple, your wedding motif, degree of formality and what you want to portray to your guests to get them in the "dancing mood." The challenge is that not all couples have experience dancing with one another, and many grooms will find this part somewhat tedious. To make planning for the first dance more fun, consider getting a lesson or two to together to set your minds at ease, or even setting up a choreographed dance ahead of time that will wow and surprise your guests.

Pennsylvania dance studios of all types will train couples in a specific type of dance for their wedding, often for a very reasonable and worthwhile fee. This dance will be on your video, so make sure it is representative of what you want to remember on your wedding day. You might think this is an unnecessary preparation, but think about how fun it will be to have a dance planned with your sweetie. Walking out in front of all of your guests at the reception will be much less daunting if you have a "step plan."

Finding a PA Dance Instructor

Ask friends, family and your wedding planner to recommend a dance instructor with a great reputation. Make your appointment a month or two in advance to give yourself enough time to learn the steps. Some couples will need only one lesson, while others might require multiple lessons over a few weeks to feel comfortable enough to dance in front of a crowd of friends and loved ones. The right dance instructor will take your concerns, style and preferences into consideration as you plan your dance. You should not be pushed into anything too dramatic or uncomfortable, but you also want to remember this dance is the kick off to the mood of your reception party.

Which Dance is Right for Us?

A romantic dance is always a great option, but try to avoid the simple "walk in a circle" dance you remember from 8th grade. Taking the time to learn a well-rehearsed dance will keep all eyes focused on you as you start off the reception. Consider a gentle ballroom dance to a sweet melody that you both enjoy, eyes on each other in true bliss. Finding the right footwork for ballroom dancing is easy in many Pennsylvanian regions. Do a simple search online for [(PA city, town or zip code) Ballroom Dance Lessons], or whichever dance style you choose, to see some quick local options. Also open your local yellow pages to find "Dance Studios" and go from there to refine your search. Make phone calls and set a budget. Many studios are willing to work with your budget and time constraints to find the perfect dance for your wedding celebration.

Some modern brides are opting for what is called a "group-private" dance lesson. This will instruct your bridesmaids and groomsmen in dancing, as well, if you would rather your first dance be a larger event. Many couples begin dancing alone, but have their attendants join them as their song progresses. If you are planning a line dance, polka, or choreographed routine, this is a great way to get everyone moving together in harmony, and is a great way to "pump up" your wedding party!

Most important is having fun on your wedding day, and your dance should be exactly that. Speak to your planner, your DJ, and close friends and family for referrals and ideas if you are starting from scratch. If you're looking for further inspiration, just head to YouTube!

Written by: Creighton Connor
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